The Day Everything Changed

John and I left the U.S. on April 2, 2019 and visited 26 countries over 344 days of travel, landing in Houston on March 11, 2020. We later learned that Wired Magazine published an article called An Oral History of the Day Everything Changed – and that day was March 11, 2020 – the exact day we returned.

https://www.wired.com/story/an-oral-history-of-the-day-everything-changed-coronavirus/

The Wired article chronicles the mood of the country on March 11, somewhere between disbelief and panic as, one by one, events were cancelled that no one believed could be cancelled. In Austin, the South by Southwest festival was cancelled, the NBA announced cancellation of the remainder of their season minutes before a game after a player was discovered to be ill from COVID-19, Italy announced that large parts of the country would close, flights to the U.S. from Europe would be discontinued. And of course, the COVID-19 virus was officially named a pandemic. We had been hearing news reports along the way as the spread of the virus intensified. As our travels took us in the direction of home, from Australia, to New Zealand, then Hawaii, it seemed that doors were slamming behind us.

First order of business:  Buy a Car

We sold all of our vehicles before leaving on our travels, so we knew that we needed to buy a car first thing. In the weeks before our return, John spent evenings in our hotel rooms researching cars and identifying CarMax and Certified Pre-Owned models of interest in or near Houston. On March 11, we set out to find a vehicle. As we entered car dealers, the salesmen, trained in the amenities of greeting customers, put out a hand for a handshake, and we, in response, awkwardly offered an elbow to bump and then made a joke of it. The home we returned to looked a lot like the one we had left nearly a year ago, but that would soon change. On March 11, the interstates were packed with cars, and people were everywhere. Just over a week later, states would begin to issue stay-at-home orders. And then, in the blink of an eye, the activities that define our lives: school, work, church, sporting events and concerts, and socializing, all moved to Zoom or went away entirely.

Plans interrupted

Our plan on returning home had been to spend this year travelling in the U.S. and Canada. We were going to make a swing through Louisiana to see family and friends. John and I would finally get to see his four (yes, four!) grandbabies born in our absence – triplet girls to one family and a baby boy to another – then move on to Atlanta to see my kids. After that we were going to North Carolina for a niece’s college graduation, and then we planned to make our way out West and up to Canada. None of that has happened or will happen, we realize. An employee reunion at Glacier National Park, where I spent a summer working in college, was postponed from late August to the summer of 2021.

Fast forward to the present

People ask if we are glad that we took our year around the world, and our response is a resounding ‘yes!’ We are especially glad as we realize that it may be some time before it’s possible to travel in this way again.

So, what are we doing now? For the past two months, we have been sheltering in place in a little vacation rental apartment that is in a lovely neighborhood with tree-lined streets. It’s close to lakes and nice places for walking and bike riding and we have friends in the neighborhood with whom we bicycle three times a week. On most other days we take long, ‘government approved’ walks. The exercise helps keep the ‘Quarantine 15’ at bay and we’ve been lucky that we have had a nice extended spring season in the Southeast, so the days have been relatively cool all the way to Memorial Day.

Our little vacation rental apartment has a lovely patio – John could not resist putting a few tomato plants and a basil in pots and also planting a few okra and cucumber plants

The kitchen in our little apartment is small, but well equipped, and it’s been fun to get back cooking after such a long time away. There is a farm about an hour away that, typically, sells most of its produce to restaurants, however, with restaurant business temporarily down, the farm now offers big boxes of fresh produce for sale once a week. The set-up is drive-through style, in a local parking lot. We buy a box every Saturday and enjoy the bounty all week. So far, we’ve received strawberries, blueberries, potatoes, tomatoes, purple radishes, lettuce, sweet corn, kale, leeks, Swiss chard, onions, piles of cucumbers, and several varieties of summer squash.

Yard art on a walk
We live for those we love – so true

We have a weekly, social distance visit on the lovely patio of a friend whose age puts her in the ‘vulnerable population,’ as are we, truth be told. We enjoy a nice glass of white wine and a little lunchbox-sized bag of Cheetos at our weekly visits. We so look forward to these afternoon calls and the luxury of having time to enjoy conversation with a friend.

Our weekly visit with a friend always includes white wine, Cheetos, and great conversations

We’ve also watched Metropolitan Opera broadcasts (free for now), gotten through all the seasons of “Ozark,” read books, and played Scrabble. I ‘namastay at home’ by taking yoga classes by video – the list just goes on.

Someone I rode bikes with yesterday referred to the two of us as ‘Pandemic Appreciators’ – which sounds odd, except that he and I had discussed that we are a little embarrassed to admit that we are actually pretty happy with the pace of life in quarantine. We are fortunate to be able to enjoy the ease of a slower schedule, the luxury of – dare I say it? Boredom. I recognize how hard this has been on so many: those who have lost jobs, have been sick or have lost loved ones, or have suffered in many other ways. But, if I’m honest, it suits me well.

Be safe, y’all.

Nearby lakes are a lovely place to walk or bicycle

12 thoughts on “The Day Everything Changed

  1. After our discussion yesterday I reflected on life since March 11, 2020. We spent time that week stocking up on essentials at Costco and Kroger. Then on Thursday I hosted bridge. On Friday 3/13/20 we hosted Book Club. It was surreal as we all knew what was happening and didn’t know the future. But we are like you in that we are enjoying the time to step back, reflect, visit even though virtual. Our yard looks more lush, appreciating less pollution. Love hearing about your re-entry.
    Mary McCowen

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  2. Thank you for the update, Sallie. Pretty amazing contrast going from travelling the world to a shut down world. Glad it suits you and John!

    It’s better here now that I can do gardening and little hikes with friends.

    Love, Geri

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    1. So glad to hear it, Geri! Thanks for reading, as always. Looking forward to seeing you when that becomes possible.

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  3. I love this beautiful little love letter. It sounds like you are settled and happy. Love that beautiful garden and your simple rituals that make you smile. Glad to have you back for awhile.

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  4. Hi Sallie! Tulio and I met you on the Avalon river cruise Prague to Bucharest in April of 2019. I misplaced your site name and forgot to check in, but lately have been thinking a lot about you guys and wondering how this craziness affected your travels. Just found my little notebook from the trip, and WOW! You got home the DAY things shut down??? Definitely providential! I’m so glad you are safely home and actually only a few hours from us. It would be fun to meet up for a meal and catch up once all this settles down more. I can’t wait to start reading all the rest of your blogs from your year of travel. How cool to have been able to do all that before our passports became useless! We missed out on this year’s cruise of course, and many trips around the country, but are so glad to be in a beautiful place where we can walk many miles in nature and enjoy our grandbabies. Blessings, Donna Robinson

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    1. Hi, Donna! I do remember you. Thanks for reaching out. I have not checked the WordPress site so much lately since I’m not blogging as much. Remind me of where you live – we are not actually living in Houston, we are mostly in Baton Rouge, but at the moment we’re in Atlanta on our way to spend the month of August in a house outside of Great Smoky Mountain NP in Bryson City. I’m planning to write about what we do there, probably mostly hiking. We are glad to get away, although are trying to be conscientious about social distancing at all times. Thank you for reading my blog!

      Sallie

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  5. I don’t know if my last attempt to reply worked since it said I wasn’t logged in. Here is another try. We live just south of Knoxville, TN, by the Smokys, and would love to meet up with you guys for lunch or a hike if you do come up to Bryson City some time. Just shoot me an email! 🙂

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      1. It looks like Bryson City is in NC (I thought it was in TN)….and is just over 2 hours away from Maryville (our town). Gatlinburg is half way. I keep hoping that this COVID thing will ease up a bit since we haven’t done much traveling. We could meet at the visitor’s center at Sugarlands, just out of Gatlinburg, for a little nature trail walk, if they are open. Anyway, if you want to meet for lunch in or near Gatlinburg let me know. Email me at donna14@pacbell.net. Tulio has a class next week, but perhaps after that?

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    1. sorry not to have replied sooner – my blog has gone a little inactive since we are not travelling as much and I often go several days without checking it.

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